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Recommended Reading List For Men Going Through the 12 Steps
Men often ask me if there are resources that can help them process through the 12 steps. In addition to 12 step workbooks, this book list was created as a supplement to support that journey, drawing on both clinical wisdom and spiritual insight . This is not meant to be overwhelming or prescriptive, but rather give you varied voices of trusted mentors that can walk alongside you through the 12-step process. The first book I encourage men to pick up as they start a 12 step re

Joseph McKinley
Aug 29, 20253 min read


Digital Boundaries for Sex Addiction
I’ve spent many hours alongside men wrestling with unwanted sexual behaviors and walked alongside their spouses who’ve felt the...

Joseph McKinley
Jul 26, 202514 min read


Pornography, Defined.
In the course of my work, I hear men say all the time that they no longer watch pornography, but in my time with them, I can tell their minds are still clouded. One of the issues that I see is that men don’t know how to define pornography. Pornography can be anything you want it to be. That’s why it’s important to define what pornography is in relation to sobriety...

Joseph McKinley
Mar 17, 20243 min read


5 Steps to Quit Porn Addiction
You’re not going to tackle this addiction unless you admit that it is a real issue. Real problems need real solutions. That means a willingness to do whatever is necessary to solve the problem...

Joseph McKinley
Jan 2, 20243 min read


What to do about Triggers in Sexual Addiction
As an expert recovery coach, I've witnessed firsthand the challenges that individuals with sexual addiction face on their journey toward...

Joseph McKinley
Dec 26, 20232 min read
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