Formal Full Disclosure
If you’ve experienced the pain of betrayal, you’re probably craving something solid—answers, honesty, and a way forward that actually leads to healing. That’s where Formal Full Disclosure comes in. It’s a structured process we guide couples through to help rebuild trust and provide both partners with the clarity they need.
This isn’t about dumping every detail or rehashing pain without purpose. It’s about bringing truth into the light in a way that is safe, intentional, and professionally guided so that genuine healing can begin.
What is a Formal Full Disclosure?
Formal Full Disclosure is a guided process in which the partner struggling with sexual addiction shares a complete, written account of their behaviors, followed by a polygraph examination to assist with truth verification. It is not spontaneous or unfiltered. Instead, it is a carefully prepared process completed step by step.
Throughout the process, our coaches walk with both partners, ensuring the disclosing partner and the betrayed partner are emotionally, spiritually, and mentally prepared for each phase. Our goal is not simply to exchange information, but to create a foundation of truth from which trust can begin to be rebuilt.
How the Process Works
Preparation for both partners
The process begins with separate coaching sessions for each partner.
We work with the disclosing partner to develop a clear, thorough, and honest disclosure document—not every minute detail, but the complete truth necessary for healing. At the same time, we help the betrayed partner become emotionally grounded, identify important questions, and prepare for the disclosure experience.
Working with each partner separately allows both individuals to be adequately prepared before the disclosure session takes place. This preparation typically includes several coaching sessions, a self-paced video course, and guided homework completed between sessions.
Disclosure Session
Once both partners are ready, we bring you together for the Formal Full Disclosure session.
During this meeting, the disclosing partner reads the disclosure document while the betrayed partner listens and has the opportunity to ask questions. The entire process takes place in a calm, structured, and professionally guided environment where emotional safety remains the highest priority.
Both partners are supported throughout every step of the session.
Polygraph
A polygraph is an important part of the Formal Full Disclosure process. It is not intended as punishment or an attempt to “catch” someone. Instead, it serves as a tool that helps establish credibility, provides peace of mind for the betrayed partner, and reinforces accountability for the recovering partner.
If you choose to include a polygraph, we coordinate with a certified polygraph examiner and help both partners prepare for the examination. The polygraph is administered after the disclosure has been completed and is based on specific, clearly defined questions directly related to the disclosure document.
Follow-Up Support & Impact Work
The Formal Full Disclosure session is not the finish line—it marks the beginning of a new chapter in recovery and healing.
Following disclosure, we provide intentional follow-up coaching to help both partners process what has been shared and begin the work of rebuilding trust.
For the betrayed partner, this often means creating space to process the emotional impact of the disclosure, regain a sense of stability, and continue healing in a safe and supported environment. We help you remain grounded in your own reality, process difficult emotions, and move forward without having to navigate the journey alone.
For the disclosing partner, the focus shifts from confession to transformation. This is a season of remaining engaged in recovery, listening with empathy, taking ownership, and continuing the work that leads to lasting sobriety, integrity, and character change.
Throughout this phase, our coaching team remains actively involved with both partners, providing guidance, accountability, and support as you move from disclosure toward long-term healing and restoration.
Disclosure sets the tone for real recovery.
Couples who go through Full Disclosure with structured support are more likely to rebuild trust and move forward with peace.
Is this the right step for you?
Formal Full Disclosure is a guided process where the partner struggling with sexual addiction shares a full, written account of their behaviors, typically followed by a polygraph examination to aid in truth verification. It’s not spontaneous or unfiltered—it’s something we prepare for, step by step. We will walk with each of you through the process, ensuring both the disclosing partner and the betrayed partner are ready emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.