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Recommended Reading List For Men Going Through the 12 Steps
Men often ask me if there are resources that can help them process through the 12 steps. In addition to 12 step workbooks, this book list was created as a supplement to support that journey, drawing on both clinical wisdom and spiritual insight . This is not meant to be overwhelming or prescriptive, but rather give you varied voices of trusted mentors that can walk alongside you through the 12-step process. The first book I encourage men to pick up as they start a 12 step re

Joseph McKinley
Aug 29, 20253 min read


Recovery Is Not About Sobriety
It’s very easy to start recovery as if you’re looking up from the bottom of Mt. Everest. It seems like sobriety is a mountain that you have to climb and conquer. If your mountaintop experience is being sober, you’ll likely never have the motivation to continue your recovery. By pursuing the very thing that you desire, you’ll lose it...

Joseph McKinley
Feb 19, 20242 min read


The Role of Powerlessness in Sex Addiction Recovery
This is post 1 in our "12 Words to Define Recovery" series. When you hear the word "powerlessness," it might sound counterintuitive....

Joseph McKinley
Oct 3, 20232 min read
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