Promises are easy. Patterns tell the truth. Here’s how to know if he’s really changed after betrayal.

If you’re a man in recovery, you’ve probably realized something sobering: sobriety does not automatically equal connection. You can stop acting out. You can attend group. You can install accountability software. And still feel emotionally distant from your wife. That’s because rebuilding intimacy after sexual addiction requires more than behavioral change. It requires relational courage. For many men, especially those who also struggle with intimacy anorexia—the intentional